This spoke to me

I really resonated with David's point about not trying to be 'Bob the Builder' and fix others. I've been there too, trying to change my partner and mold them into someone they're not. But I learned the hard way that it's impossible to force someone to grow or change if they're not willing. Leaving that relationship was tough, but I finally understood that people will only become who they want to be, and that's beyond my control. Now, I'm focusing on being the best version of myself and letting go of the need to fix others.